This year has been challenging to explain, filled with ups and downs that has tested our patience and resilience. While it’s tempting to express my frustration with strong language, I choose to reflect instead on the comforting words of the book of Psalms, which offer wisdom and solace in tough times. Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD. (Psalm 27:14)

We began the year by celebrating cousin Marvin’s wedding to his lovely wife, Sandra. Marvin is Sheila’s first cousin on her mom’s side. I met Marvin in December 2015 when Sheila and I were passing through Washington, D.C., on our way back to the continent. At that time, he was living in Blacksburg, Virginia, finishing his studies. Our daughter and her first cousin (only weeks apart) got all dressed up for the wedding!

In January, Sheila and I embarked on a much-needed adult getaway to Cape Town. This trip marked the first time we spent several nights away from the kids, which was a significant experience for us. While it can be emotionally challenging to leave your kids, who may be sad at your departure and longing for your company, it’s essential to engage in activities without them occasionally.

Taking time for ourselves is important, even if it might seem trivial, such as enjoying a quiet moment in the bathroom or reflecting in the shower without interruptions. Often, when I’m finally alone, the peace is short-lived as I am quickly bombarded with questions as soon as someone outside the door realizes I’m not available.  Overall, this trip was a valuable opportunity for us to reconnect and rejuvenate, with parenthood’s demands temporarily on break.

We decided to forgo Christmas expenses for ourselves this year and instead take a trip to Cape Town for New Year’s. Having lived in South Africa, we have developed a deep appreciation for this vibrant country, often called the “rainbow nation.” While South Africa has its own unique characteristics that set it apart from other African nations, it also grapples with ongoing racial issues, significant income disparities, and high crime levels. Interestingly, its social environment bears some resemblance to that of the United States. One notable aspect of life in South Africa is the prevalence of shopping malls, which play a significant role in the local culture and offer amazing restaurants.

We spent a considerable amount of our time exploring the picturesque Stellenbosch and Franschhoek regions, both renowned for their prestigious wineries and stunning landscapes. This area is celebrated not only for its exceptional wine production but also for its charming Cape Dutch architecture and vibrant culinary scene. The best time to visit Cape Town is during the Southern Hemisphere summer, from December to February, when temperatures range from 20 to 30 degrees Celsius (68 to 86 degrees Fahrenheit), offering warm, pleasant weather for outdoor activities.

In contrast, our visit in June 2023 was marked by chilly temperatures, often dropping to 10 degrees Celsius (50 degrees Fahrenheit), along with persistent wind and rain that made outdoor excursions less enjoyable. Summer brings a lively atmosphere to the wineries, with many hosting events and activities that extend late into the evening. We took full advantage of this by enjoying leisurely evenings on the beautiful lawns, where we listened to talented musicians and savored an array of incredible wines, a delightful experience for me as a wine enthusiast.

Stellenbosch and Franschhoek offer much more than just wine tours. Visitors can enjoy olive oil tastings, sample a variety of cheeses, and even indulge in chocolate tasting experiences. Additionally, the region boasts a selection of excellent restaurants that serve a diverse range of delicious dishes. With a wealth of activities and attractions, there’s something for everyone in this vibrant part of South Africa.

After a refreshing break, we returned to Kigali, invigorated and eager to reunite with the kids as we geared up for our journey back to Dar es Salaam. Little did we know that our arrival on Monday, January 20, in Dar es Salaam would mark the beginning of a transformative period for the industry I work in. What happened that day forced us to rethink our plans and adjust to new situations. I shed a few tears, felt some anger, and endured moments of desperation. I look forward to sharing more about this crucial moment and its impact in Part 2 of our 2025 review. It truly was a rollercoaster of a year, and I am not sure we have even reached the station yet.